I dont know what to do with my life?

i cant afford grad school, im jobless, living with my mother at 21 years old... being cheating on by my bf, betrayed by my friends, and going broke. im about to graduate college with my BA degree and i dont know what to do with my life afterwards? i got declined a good job offer becuz there was a lot of competition and yes the pick the best of the best... so i didnt make the cut. i am not a loser! if u think im trying to be a deadbeat im not.. i still have to pay for everything regardless of my situation. my car, phone, and food. i just dont know what to do. i have all this crap on my plate and a life going into a dark tunnel. im lost, confused, hurt, and betrayed. i need help. :(